tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post2506791995893140420..comments2024-01-09T17:41:25.941+01:00Comments on Au Fil des Jours...: Vivre sous une main ferme...Stan/E.http://www.blogger.com/profile/18277032166261511531noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-80348125067240758212012-08-22T06:42:24.438+02:002012-08-22T06:42:24.438+02:00You are very clear in your explanations.
Thank you...You are very clear in your explanations.<br />Thank you.<br /><br />Bonne journée.Ellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-68283406123182274572012-08-22T03:12:17.194+02:002012-08-22T03:12:17.194+02:00Merci beaucoup!
I am pleased that things transl...Merci beaucoup! <br /><br />I am pleased that things translated correctly. I was worried my feelings on the matter would not come though with the words. The nuance of the situation doesn't always come though with the computer translating instead of a person. Mrs. Soft Bottomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02098617893060318097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-61612324337424444252012-08-21T20:36:49.682+02:002012-08-21T20:36:49.682+02:00@ Mrs. Soft Bottom : I agree with Stan.
Each visio...@ Mrs. Soft Bottom : I agree with Stan.<br />Each vision spanking. Here it is domestic discipline.<br />I admire the harmony it seems you two seem.<br />Spanking has a clearly defined role and set you from the beginning.<br />And it works great.<br />Thank you for such a witness !<br /><br />Enrichissant..Nous avons tous notre vision certes..du moment que l'on y trouve notre équilibre et notre "bonheur" !<br /><br />Ellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-47143749671819623842012-08-21T20:15:14.819+02:002012-08-21T20:15:14.819+02:00@ Mrs.SB: These explanations seem quite convincing...@ Mrs.SB: These explanations seem quite convincing. Thank you... I also believe that everyone here has his own vision, and what works for some does not necessarily work for others.Stan/E.http://myblogstany.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-87000894552164820942012-08-21T20:14:10.993+02:002012-08-21T20:14:10.993+02:00Spankings are suppose to hurt, otherwise it isnt a...Spankings are suppose to hurt, otherwise it isnt a spanking. <br /><br />however, there is a line beween spanking an abuse. An I think that is what you are asking me about. <br /><br />My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 18 years. I have complete trust that he will never raise his hand to me in anger or hurt me. <br /><br />He will never spank me form a place of anger, an he has never broken that trust. <br /><br />However, I am sexually aroused by spanking and the pain. So must of our sexual play does involve spanking in some form. Again we are 2 consenting adults and this dynamic is arousing for the both of us. Mrs. Soft Bottomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02098617893060318097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-17381849270778711792012-08-21T20:04:53.216+02:002012-08-21T20:04:53.216+02:00Answering Sophie....
We do not practice domestic ...Answering Sophie....<br /><br />We do not practice domestic discipline like some people. I do not have a long list of rules to comply with like some women. <br /><br />The point of what we do is to keep the small issues from turning into large ones. My husband expects me to treat him with the respect that his position as the head of our household and family is entitled to.<br /><br />We use spanking to reinforce those feelings, to help me remember that I am to respect his authority. I have had trouble doing that in the past, as I find it difficult to transition to a more submissive role at home due to my responsibilities at my workplace.<br /><br />I am a much happier person when I am in a submissive role to my husband. <br /><br />What we do may not work for everyone, but it works for us as consenting adults. Mrs. Soft Bottomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02098617893060318097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-83911732377460402062012-08-21T07:47:27.798+02:002012-08-21T07:47:27.798+02:00Maybe you'll have to copy and paste the text a...Maybe you'll have to copy and paste the text and put it directly in <a href="http://translate.google.com/" rel="nofollow">GT</a>, I just did it and it perfectly works. The automatic way doesn't give good results all the time. Tell me.<br /><br /><br />Stan/E.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18277032166261511531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-24127324935317710992012-08-21T01:49:49.407+02:002012-08-21T01:49:49.407+02:00So Google translate doesn't seem to be working...So Google translate doesn't seem to be working for the comments this evening. I referred in that entry to 2 separate occasions, one where I received 108 strokes an another where I received 102. they were several days apart in the same week. <br /><br />I will need some help translating!<br /><br />Merci!<br /><br /><br />Mrs. Soft Bottomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02098617893060318097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-47909298321700653842012-08-20T16:42:21.623+02:002012-08-20T16:42:21.623+02:00But it seems that our first question will be about...But it seems that our first question will be about the number of trokes you mention on your post, one time 108 at the beginning, but 102 at the end !Stan/E.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18277032166261511531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-91033990572707941602012-08-20T16:39:19.996+02:002012-08-20T16:39:19.996+02:00@ Dear Mrs.SB, I'll help if necessary. Hope yo...@ Dear Mrs.SB, I'll help if necessary. Hope you'll have many french anwers...Stan/E.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18277032166261511531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-454357178493497362012-08-20T15:53:08.942+02:002012-08-20T15:53:08.942+02:00Thanks for linking to me Stan. I will have to tran...Thanks for linking to me Stan. I will have to translate the comments here to respond properly. Mrs. Soft Bottomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02098617893060318097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-39833517620692834702012-08-20T15:19:56.791+02:002012-08-20T15:19:56.791+02:00Alors ces six claques sont elles retrouvées ?
Je ...Alors ces six claques sont elles retrouvées ?<br /><br />Je suis tout à fait d'accord. La fessée acceptée entre adultes consentants induit la complicité..dans le cas évoqué par Sophie, il n'y a plus de complicité et donc la fessée n'existe plus en tant que "jeu" étatbli.<br /><br />L'acceptation de l'autre oui, tout est là...Ellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-25978494672543861822012-08-20T13:40:15.934+02:002012-08-20T13:40:15.934+02:00Je crois me souvenir que la fessée est acceptée co...Je crois me souvenir que la fessée est acceptée comme tout jeu, entre "adultes consentants", hein... Il y a certains couples qui établissent des règles entre eux et s'y tiennent, j'ai déjà entendu ça. Mais j'ai de l'humour et le sens du ridicule suffisamment ancré, que ce soit sur moi autant que sur les autres pour pouvoir m'inscrire à long terme dans une telle démarche, impossible de toute évidence en couple sans une complicité de tous les instants.<br /><br />Alors bien sûr dans un jeu de rôle convenu et tracé, je crois qu'on peut prendre les choses au sérieux et aller très loin, avec l'acceptation de l'autre, mais sans ? On est passible des Assises, tout simplement.Stan/E.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18277032166261511531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-15631671365945865912012-08-20T13:34:23.378+02:002012-08-20T13:34:23.378+02:00108 ou 102, oui, j'ai remarqué la différence a...108 ou 102, oui, j'ai remarqué la différence aussi dans le texte original et n'ai pas corrigé en traduisant, puisque c'était dans la version de l'auteur. <br /><br />Mais où Diable sont donc passées ces six claques manquantes, Mrs. SoftBottom ?Stan/E.https://www.blogger.com/profile/18277032166261511531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-75966449988752498642012-08-20T13:04:39.184+02:002012-08-20T13:04:39.184+02:00Entre le début et la fin, il manque six claques lo...Entre le début et la fin, il manque six claques lol...<br /><br />Il est vrai que la fessée peut régler les problèmes courants.<br />Mais en cas de gros problèmes ?<br />La question vient d'être levée.<br /><br />S'il y a rancune, il n'y a plus fessée forcément..C'est cohérent. On entre dans un autre registre où la fessée passe au second plan voir plus même. <br />Le couple n'est plus forcément un couple ou il est mal parti pour le rester.<br />Je rejoins ce que dit Sophie..si le litige est plus profond et la rancune plus tenace, y a t-il encore une notion de couple telle qu'elle était dans la pratique de la fessée ?<br />Je ne pense pas.<br /><br />La fessée résout bien des mots et des maux mais pas tous.Ellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22140189.post-73893163118351128582012-08-20T11:30:21.550+02:002012-08-20T11:30:21.550+02:00J'avoue que la DD sous cette forme (celle que ...J'avoue que la DD sous cette forme (celle que décrit Isabelle ailleurs) me laisse perplexe. C'est vraiment tentant de penser qu'on peut régler les 1000 petits differents de la vie de couple ainsi. Mais qu'en est-il lorsque le litige devient plus profond, la rancune plus tenace(qu'on soit d'un côté ou l'autre de la main)?Sophienoreply@blogger.com